DemonsLust Wrote:I'm so nervous! A really close friend of mine is coming up here. He kinda like likes me and i kinda like him the same way. I'm in a panic!
i wanna him to have sex with me, but i scared to ask or talk bout it with him. I'm a nervous ball of jitters!!!!!!
Easy now, make sure you really want this. If you feel confident, then you may continue.
Well, make sure to ease him into it, slowly shift the conversation towards sex. If you feel frisky enough, move in and kiss him on the lips.
Also, USE A CONDOM! I cannot stress this enough, practice safe-sex.
Now, as Luftmallow said, it WILL be awkward. It always is. It will be painful too, maybe even for both involved. Don't do anything you don't want to do, don't force things on him either. It's best if you stick to handjobs and fingering first and then have sex. I believe missionary was said to be the least painful, it may be doggy-style, look into it.
But most importantly of all, don't stress too much. Stress makes sex bad. Just relax and let it happen. Good luck!!!
(Disclaimer: I am a virgin, but I know a thing or two. So, still take heed of my advice as much as possible.)