Hmm, seems you're pretty well equipped there, but I guess I got what you were saying wrong, though I was responding to your Cumdump bit, rather then the whole Kissing and Winking thing. Anyways, I'm currently gaining 24 Mp, but that's cuz I don't feel like spending money when I don't know if I'm getting the best out of it, especially if money is as limited as it is, so if you feel like it's getting too easy or whatever, boost the challenge some how (like those people with Pokemon Nuzelock and so on), though that's just my take.
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Also, lol it seems I've been using something similar to what you're saying too, just not the whole Shared Fantasy bit (cuz it's only partially done, and I'm not as well equipped), and silence hasn't been any real problem for me, even if my full party was -- had this happen to me once, but got through it cuz I had already weakened the opponent, and inflicted statuses.
Anyways, don't remember using Kiss in battle more then a few times (them spiders and maybe that Seed thing). Remember just having Qum on permanent masturabating, then Cumdump cuz Mp isn't much of a problem, duty till she gets around 50/60 lust, then using Orgasm. I think it's the same with Wink as well -- lol for a healer, the only use for her seems to have is the full party healing, and taking the role of potions.
Ps. Oops, accidentally subtracted 10 twice
, silly me, that's what I get for posting before going to bed. Wait, nvm, I counted Masturabate when I said that extra 5. masturabate = +10, while Cumdump = +15, so if you subtract that, extra 5 only.